1 John 5:12 Whoever has the Son has life; whoever does not have the Son of God does not have life.

2 Corinthians 13:5 Examine yourselves, to see whether you are in the faith. Test yourselves. Or do you not realize this about yourselves, that Jesus Christ is in you?—unless indeed you fail to meet the test!

Self reflections often reveal the selfish side because discovering we have the Son is not instant but rather a journey where He reveals Himself line by line and precept by precept. 

Isaiah 28:13 And the word of the Lord will be to them precept upon precept, precept upon precept, line upon line, line upon line, here a little, there a little, that they may go, and fall backward, and be broken, and snared, and taken.

At what point do we discover that being taken means we were chosen?

At what point does insecurity give birth to security in the believer?

May I say it is very likely that each of us have our own tipping point!