Isaiah 61:10 I will greatly rejoice in the Lord; my soul shall exult in my God, for he has clothed me with the garments of salvation; he has covered me with the robe of righteousness, as a bridegroom decks himself like a priest with a beautiful headdress, and as a bride adorns herself with her jewels.
So I am admitting to getting my righteous robes dirty. Just what kind of spot remover is available to us since those robes are not ours?
1 John 1:9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
What if we don’t know where the spot came from? What do we confess then?
If you can see it, you know what caused it.
Can’t we just ignore it?
Sure but then it just gets bigger and uglier until others see it too.
Hebrews 10:24-25 English Standard Version
24 And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, 25 not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near.
While the bible does not call out the term accountability partners, this scripture implies it.
James 5:16 Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working.
While James does not say one person is preferred over another, the inclusion of a righteous person to confess our sins too would indicate it is someone who has demonstrated a level of maturity that allows us to trust them.
If new to a church and seeking an accountability partner, ask the senior pastor for a candidate. That is how I got mine. One thing I would like us to do in the first meeting is to make a couple things clear from the onset. One, it is a two way street, you need to be there for them as much as they are for you. Two, it is cooperation, not a competition.
And one last thing, a good accountability partner does not let you off the hook. They may be guilty of doing the same thing and their conscience does not bother them. It is our conscience that needs to be assuaged, being told it isn’t a problem doesn’t help.